Replace self-criticism with self-correction. Judging yourself harshly now won't help you do better in the future. Take the position of an observer. What if a good friend told you he had failed? Would you call him a failure? Most probably you would emphasize his good points and help him put the situation in perspective.
Editor answered 11 years agoLife without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit. - Khalil Gibran